Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Who's ready for another update??

I think it is fun to start the blog with pictures so here we go!

10.06.2013



I can't believe September is already over!

          K this is real life!!! We were walking back from Emart and I look up and I see this. Just you know, drying out some fish!! 


Walking to Emart (kinda like wal-mart) and I thought it was a good
view of my little Sokcho City.


     

We were waiting for our investigator to get home from work, and they had little toys at their apt complex....so we took some pics ;)
                          

                                Hanging out some squid to dry! Haha so unreal to me!!


                             

Our last day teaching English class together before Elder Ghergori got
transfered.



Okay fun fact! Here in Korea #4 is SUPER UNLUCKY. So this week we went
to teach a new investigator and she lives on the 4th floor but there wasn't a number 4 and I was so confused and I just stared at it forever. Weird, huh. I thought ya'll would like seeing the F instead of 4.




Truth Is…..
It's ridiculously painful that I don't have time to tell you EVERYTHING that happened in my week. I'll share a few high lights, but know that I truly am having an inspired time here in Korea.

Hopefully you all were able to watch General Conference this Saturday and Sunday! Mom and Dad got to go with the Whitney's, luck ducks! I am so jealous! I have to wait until this next weekend for them to translate it into Korean. But "good things come to those who wait", right? I hope testimonies were strengthened as you heard the talks from the Lord's Servants. I also hope you were able to feel the love through the messages and truths being spoken of.

This week was amazing for one of our investigators. She has been meeting with Elders since 2008 and when we came to Sokcho they referred her to us. But she is ALWAYS busy. For real. So in the beginning it was hard to meet with her. So we just started going to her store to meet with her, and then someone would show up and it was impossible to teach! A few weeks ago we were thinking about dropping her but then we ran into her and her 2 adorable children on the street and she said she wanted me to start coming to their house to teach them English. So we've started doing that this week and it's been incredible! We are meeting more with her and being able to teach her and her children together in their home is 10000x's more better than in her store. They are really progressing and they really want the gospel (this is amazing to me and very rare here).
 One Monday we went to her store and gave her a gift. She always has American Songs playing in her store, and we thought it would be better if the music she played was more uplifting aka church music :) And so we have a lot of LDS/Religious/Gospel music and so we chose from this huge list and put together as a gift for her. When we took it to her she was SHOCKED (keep in mind this is the investigator that ALWAYS gives me free things. Actually, I don't know if I ever told you, but this woman gave me my flower backpack, and she gave me socks, and she buys us dinner, and she said she's going to buy me nutella...this woman is a Saint! ;) pun intended ;P okay sorry I'm so corny). So she opens her gift and we explain to her that it's American music (she LOVES American music) and we tell her it's like Church music and her joyful face turned sour faster than ever! Church music?!? Eww, gross! Who wants church music?! MY INVESTIGATOR that's who! She ABSOLUTELY LOVED IT, but she first had to listen. Since then she has thanked us over and over and tells us how much she loves it and she also tells everyone about how great we are. She is a huge blessing in my life!

This week we met with 2 "kind of" investigators, and neither of them believe in Jesus Christ. I found it difficult for me to listen to what they thought of Jesus Christ. The pain I felt when one woman said, "Christ failed" was indescribable. As I bore testimony to the other investigator, he repeatedly said, "that's your truth, not mine." I know it's my truth, and I'm trying to share it with you. This morning my companion shared  Moroni 7:12-19with me. Truth is, everything that is good stems from Jesus Christ.
Through this experience my testimony of Jesus Christ of our Lord and Savior has sky rocketed. I can't explain to you everything...but I can bear my solemn testimony of Him. I know that Jesus Christ is the Son of Our Living and Loving Heavenly Father. He came to earth, just as we did, and received a body. He set the fine exemplary of how each of us should live our lives. He suffered for us in Gethsemane, he was beaten and bruised, and ultimately was crucified. He not only died for each and one of us who has lived, will lived, and is living on the earth~ but he LIVES for us! I know that through him is the only way we can receive eternal life and live with our Heavenly Father. I know that because He is my Savior and Redeemer, He will comfort me when I ask in faith. I know that if we will all humble ourselves and just listen to the Prophets who have, who will, and who do testify of Him, we will be filled with His pure love. I am forever grateful to wear His name on my chest every single day. I am so grateful that I get to share a message with people that is centered on Jesus Christ. There is nothing better than His example. Everyone has access to his life, and teaching in the scriptures. I hope each one of us strive to be like Him. Surely He lives, I know and feel that these things are true, and I bear my testimony in His name, the Savior and Redeemer of the World, Jesus Christ, amen.

I love each of you. I still pray for all of you. I'm grateful all of you pray for me and reply to my messages each week. I receive so much strength through your letters (especially those who share missionary experiences, it makes me want to work even harder).

I wish you a beautiful week, and just remember when times are tough...Monday's will ALWAYS come ;)
With all my love,
Whit 헌새커 자매


10.13.2013       God Is Always With You
I stand by what I said 6 months ago, "Conference is to missionaries as Disney World is to children."

I needed Conference. And I didn't have to watch it in Korean!! I got to watch it in my own language :) I'm such a lucky girl. Of course I took notes, I took A LOT of notes. My companion and I were talking about how we wished conference could be every month! Yes, it's that good. I believe every missionary looks forward to General Conference. I just want to share a few quotes that brought me comfort when I heard them, I'll start with my very favorite: (also, these may not be exact direct quotes...some of them are...well they may just be what the spirit told me)

"If the bitter cup doesn't pass, drink it and be strong!"
"Believe in miracles! Hope is never lost!"
"Broken minds can be healed just like broken bones."     -E. Holland
"Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith."
"God is perfect. His gospel is perfect. Realize mistakes will be made my man."    -Pres. Uchtdorf
"God can't allow the least amount of sin, because he knows what it takes to be like Him."
-E. Scott
"Tears fell from his sightless eyes."
"..best of times or the worst of times, He is with us."      -Pres. Monson
"Never look back. Look at what we still have to do."
"It doesn't matter where you serve, it's how you serve."     -E.Dube
"God gives us something to remember Him...trials."
"He should be our literal focal point."
"He could prevent the heart aching trial...but how would we learn to trust Him?"      -E. Vinson
"Never too young to learn, and never too old to change"
"None of us can stop being a child of God."       -E. Nelson
"It's impossible for us to fail when we are on the Lord's errand."
"If you have abiding hope within you, it's enough."      -E. Ballard

Okay~ that seems like enough, eh? :) Now let me tell you why I chose those specific quotes to share with you. Before conference I pondered on what I could ask the Lord. I came up with three questions, and all of these quotes that I have shared with you were the answer to my questions. All throughout conference I felt the spirit testify to me that God loves me, and ALL of His children.

If you didn't watch all of conference, go online and watch what you missed. All of the videos are there (that's how I watched them) and they are there SPECIFICALLY for YOU to watch them. Learn from them. Be comforted by them, just as I was. I can't emphasis enough the importance of general conference. If you are struggling in life (aren't we all ;) really?) think of a question you would ask the Lord, and then read or watch a conference talk, and I promise you, the Lord will speak to you and through the Holy Ghost you will receive an answer. If you don't, you aren't listening for His answer. God is always speaking to us. I hope none of us forget Him. 

As far as missionary work goes this week~ it was pretty normal. We have a mission standard for contacts each week. And our area is pretty spread out and it's difficult to reach that number each week. I spoke to an Elder who served here for 4 transfers and I asked him how many times he reached our mission standard for contacts and he said twice. I thought that was very sad. So me and my companion agreed that we would reach the mission standard every single week. Sooooo, last night we watched the Relief society broadcast after the 2 sessions of conference. It was about 7pm, and we still needed to go and visit a less active, eat dinner, and get 43 more contacts. I thought, "How is this possible?" Immediately after that thought I reminded myself of my favorite scripture, Luke 1:37. And let me just say, I know it's true. We were able to do all that we needed to, with God's help. Had we not met our goal, I think I would have been a little crushed. But because we worked hard and God knew the desires of our hearts, he made it possible.

Miracles: finally got the packages you guys sent! I got both of them at Zone meeting and everyone says, "sister hunsaker you are so popular", "everybody loves you", and one elder said, "those are from your boyfriend huh!" and I laughed (because we all know what happened to my boyfriend) and I said, "No, these are from my family!" and another sister said, "wow, can I date you family?" :) thanks for loving me guys! I do realize just how blessed I am to have all of you :) xxo

another miracle: I got my hair trimmed last pday and they DIDN'T chop my hair off!! Every american sister who gets their hair cut here, ends up gettin butched!, but I experienced a miracle :)

Oh this one is funny!: so we teach an English class for a less active member and one of the ladies said to me, "do you have a boyfriend?" (every time someone asks me that, I just laugh) I simply reply, "nope! :)" and she says, "do you have a korean boyfriend?" (keep in mind this is all in English) and I look at her funny and I explain to her I am a missionary, and I grab my tag and show her. Then she says, "do you think korean men are handsome?" Deep down I want to say, "NO!" but instead I say, "I don't really know because I'm american" (that answer works every time, they eat it up) and then she says, "well, I want you to be my daughter-in-law!" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA, I ABSOLUTELY DIED, and this woman was 100% dead serious. She explains to me that her son is wealthy and single and lives in America and needs a wife. I politely decline her offer and say, "I'm a missionary." I later found out that her son is 37 years old............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................what a miracle it is to be a missionary :)

I love you all so much! I know in this gospel we can all be happy, if we will just let God soften our hearts. I know God lives and I know our Savior does as well. They get me through my hard days here in Korea, and they laugh with me (I'm sure) when I have those moments.

Thank you for all you do for me!
xxo
Whit 헌새커 자매
Hunsaker Jamae




10.20.2013


Okay this is real life people. They hang their fish out to dry on
laundry racks!! I have that same laundry rack in my house, I put my
clean washed clothes on it to dry....and they put their clean washed
(maybe) fish out to dry. When I saw this, I started digging for my
camera in my bag and my companion just laughs and the story owner
comes out and wants to know if we want to buy the fish. My sweet
companion explains to her, "no she just think's this is funny so she
wants to take a picture, She's from America." Then the lady replies,
"ahhh, yeah." AS IF I'M THE WEIRD ONE BECAUSE I THINK THIS IS WEIRD!!!
I also said, "My mom is going to die when she see's this!"





Next pic is inside an apartment complex, we went to find a LA member
and I thought the view was incredible! Sokcho is so pretty!!



And this last pic I just wanted to show you guys this picture on my desk :) I love my family!!!  xoxo 


This is completely normal to see on a DAILY basis...and I love it :)

While my mom was down here in Las Vegas visiting my husband and I we decide to send Whit a package….  FULL of popcorn!!!   It's always fun to send her things that she would not expect.  The small things that can bring the biggest smile to someone's face.   We love our little Whitley.  :) 


Whitley emailed my mom one Sunday when I was up visiting and asked when we were going to draw names for Christmas.  This is something we have ALWAYS done and obviously Whit didn't think we would put it on hold this year while she was gone.  When my mom asked me about it I suggested we let Whitley & her companion draw names for us and tell us who we have.  I was hoping that in some small way she would feel like she is still part of our Christmas even though she cannot be with us.     So,  just in case you are all wondering who has who for Christmas this year…..   hahahah!  
Dad~ Marcio                  Momma~ Brady                        Zoey~ Skyler
BJ~ Dad                         Brady~ BJ                                 Marcio~ Momma
Skyler~ Whitley             Whitley~ Zoey

'Tis the Season!!! :)    Ya'll wanna know all this stuff, right?  I know Whitley will appreciate reading this when she gets home.   Once again, its the small things.


Can You Feel So Now?
Monday's are the absolute best when you are a missionary! :) Except it's the worst day when the first email the missionary reads is about their Father who was injured!!! Dad! I hope and pray that you will heal quickly. I'm also curious as to what you were doing so close to the cow that you let him kick you in the head?! I mean you're not the tallest guy in the world...but I don't think any cow can kick as high as you stand. ㅋㅋㅋ Okay all kidding aside, I was/am worried about you. I can't understand why men think they have to be so darn tough all the time! I'm grateful you listened and went to the hospital for stitches! And I also hope you get your tooth fixed ;) And most importantly I'm grateful you didn't receive any damage to your skull. I love you~ I hope all of you are taking care of yourselves and one another.

How's that for an opener for my email? Haha~ guys my week was so so so good. I don't really know why. It actually wasn't that good, but my companion and I worked really hard and we tried to have lessons with our investigators and find less active's but EVERY single appointment we had this week cancelled on us. But I am still happy because I know that even though we were let down by our investigators, we didn't let that get us down.
 
This coming week we have Branch Conference, and President Interviews. I'm personally more excited about the Interview with President than the Branch Conference. We've been working really hard all month to find all the "lost sheep" (or less active members) and invite them to church. I have no idea who these people are. I don't know their circumstances, why they aren't at church, or their conversion story....the only thing I know is that they are God's sheep, and he's asked me to go find them. In real life, I've never looked for a lost sheep, literally. But if it's anything like finding less actives in Korea, it's like finding a needle in a hay stack! It seems impossible! But if we all remember my favorite scripture, Luke 1:37, we know that it's not impossible! And this morning I read President Uchtdorf's Conference talk, "Come, Join Us" I think it's called? Anyway, it's excellent, one of my favorites!

So like I said, I don't know any of these less active members. I can barley remember their names...but I have this intense burning love for them that I can hardly control. Sounds odd, doesn't it? I know. And it feels even more strange...but then I remember who I am and it's not so strange. 3 Nephi 5:13, "Behold, I am a disciple of Jesus Christ, the Son of God. I have been called of him to declare his word among his people, that they might have everlasting life." Because I am God's missionary and a disciple of Jesus Christ I feel the love they have for these "lost sheep". I think that is AMAZING to be able to feel this love. And I know what I feel isn't even God's full love. I know God loves his children~ because I feel His love. I know that missionaries aren't the only people who can feel the love of God. Members hopefully feel it all throughout their week. And investigators when they are being taught. Missionaries all over the world just want to help you. We have this burning love inside us, to help~ in any way that we can. Please, let us help you.

I love all of you. I hope each of you feel God's love, and if you don't, go search for it. Some of you may know that God loves you because you once felt it, or maybe just that's what people say so you believe it. Whatever your reason, I want you to know that God's love is never ending~ so if you can't feel so now, I invite you to go back to church. I add my invitation to President Uchtdorf's...if you have felt God's love before, I wonder, can you feel so now? If not, come to church, renew your baptismal covenants with Heavenly Father, and help build up the Kingdom of God here on the earth. Nothing can bring you greater joy than when you are serving Heavenly Father and his children.

May God's love ever be with us. 
xxo
Whit 헌새커 Jamaenim


10.27.2013

I am pretty sure these exclamation marks solidifies the joy of the small things

okay!     I GOT YOUR PACKAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    :):):) You are the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  
my mission president thought maybe it was cereal, but I said, "no I bet it's hot tamales!" I  don't know why/how I thought/knew that :)   THANKS ZO!!!!!!!!!





Last Monday we had FHE after Pday, and it was our investigators little girls birthday....so we had a little surprise party for her!! It was so fun. She turned 11 and she is just about the most shy person in the whole world. Okay, not really. But we are forgetful and we didn't get a picture with her and her sign, so we just got one of us! 







We made this sign for her and her favorite color is white so we got like 30 white balloons and white streamers and then gave her a picture of all of us in a white picture frame. 

Birthdays are a big deal!! At least that's what I learned from Me'ma!



Where You Stand
When I type names to send emails, every single time I am so confused why nothing comes up when I type, "mom", "dad", "grandma", "emons"...hello, how many months have I been doing this?! I just want you all to know I'm still not perfect...yet ;)

Fun Fact: Zo sent me a package, and in that package was hot tamales (my favorite!!) and I gave one to my companion...remember how Korean's eat the spiciest food in the world?? Their food puts the spice in Mexican food to shame! Anyway I give her a hot tamale....and she just about dies because it's SO hot! Haha Korean's can't handle cinnamon spice and I think it's just the funniest thing.

The crazy lady at English class is still in love with me and wants me to marry her son. She speaks to the woman next to her (in korean) and she says, "Sister Hunsaker is so beautiful huh!" blah blah blah, and then she say's she wants to tempt me! WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?!?! I don't know, but truly I am scared of this old woman.

Anyway, we had our branch conference. There was a goal of 70 people, and I think there were about 40 ish total. It was very spiritual. Even though I couldn't understand every word spoken, I definitely can't deny the spirit that I felt. During the meeting all of us missionaries ( Me, Sister Song, Elder Black, Elder Helsloot, and Sister Christensen~President's wife) sang, "The Hollow of Thy Hand" (I'm not entirely sure of the exact title of the song) we sang the "sister" version not the original "elder" version. And I had never heard that song before. It's on some missionary movie, I can't remember which one because I haven't seen it. ANYWAY, it's a great song, simple and true. In the song it says, "In the hollow of they hand let her faith in thee expand, let her testimony deepen and increase." The spirit touched my heart when I sang that because I that's happening to me. My testimony is deepening and increasing, and it's in insurmountable ways, it's truly a gift from God.

I am being held in the hollow of God's hand. He is leading me and guiding me every single day. Sometimes it's hard to follow where he wants me to go, because...I am scared of what man think of me(?)...I don't know. But it's just scary sometimes to stand for what's right, and what you know to be true. I remember before I was a missionary, I thought missionaries could just do anything they wanted! And I thought they were perfect and just angels! Now that I am a missionary, it doesn't really seem that way at all. I am human. I am imperfect (dang it!). I still have needs and fears just like anyone else. BUT unlike others, I get to wear Christ's name on my chest every single day. I am His missionary, and I will continue doing all I can to do his work. Which includes not only finding the lost sheep, and bringing new one's in, but also strengthening the one's still here. I've learned that our testimonies need to be strengthened and nourished every single day~ when we fail to do that, it's a "no duh" to me why we fall into Satan's traps. Repentance isn't something we need only when we have to go to our Bishop...repentance is something we all need to do DAILY. I'm so grateful for the Savior's Atonement that helps me feel clean again. God can come into our lives, we just have to ask for his help. I hope we can all stand in the hollow of God's hand.

With all my love,
Whit
헌새커 자매
Hunsaker Jahma

I big fat THANK YOU to everyone who is supporting Whitley & our family while she is out on her mission.  It could be the thoughts and prayers you say on our behalf, the letters you send to Whitley, the questions you may ask us about her…  whatever it is, we are very grateful for your support!   THANKS AGAIN!!!  



Saturday, November 16, 2013

Back at it again

Hey Everyone!  I hope you have all had a chance to get caught up on the blog!  Whit has had a lot of great things happen for her in the last few weeks and depending on the length of the letters of the rest of September & October I just might be able to fit in the news without overwhelming people. If not, you'll just have to keep pulling up the blog to check things out.   PS - I think I may have figured out the picture thing - CROSS YOUR FINGERS!!!!

09.25.2013
We went to the ocean....and this was the first time in my life that I
seen a real live jelly fish! I thought it was just about the coolest
thing ever. Also~ thanks to Disney movies I know what a lot of things
in the ocean are, however; Disney makes things a LOT more big.

We had to walk on the bridge and then under neath the bridge to get to
this little island to get to the ocean. Hard to explain, and maybe
imagine...but it's real cool. The little island we went to they
apparently have filmed Korean Drama's there and it's a very famous
place here in Sokcho.




This was on Friday...we taught an English class for a Less Active Member, and one of the ladies in the class said, "You have Barbie eyes." Hahaha I died laughing :)


While we were knocking doors I seen this, and I died laughing! Man, I hate it when my baby slips! hahahahha




God Knows Better
I seen SO MANY miracles this week :) I'm so excited to tell you about them!

So you seen the pictures of the jelly fish- I still think that's one of the coolest things I have seen in Korea.

On Tuesday I learned a very powerful lesson. So let me give some back ground info. Last week at district meeting, Elder Hone (Zone Leader) gave us some advice for helping our area here in Sokcho...and because we don't have tons of investigators we are focusing on the less active members. So to sum it up basically Elder Hone said that if people don't want to be visited we have to let them go for a season. And I REALLY didn't like hearing that. Because I don't give up on people. I just keep trying and trying. And that's kind of what I intended to do. So Tuesday we go and knock on 3 less active doors and this is what happened! The first one didn't answer the door- we looked in the window (which was open) and we seen someone laying down on the floor, but we can only see their hand. By the way we are with the Elders doing this. And at first they were trying to be all sneaky about it and so I said, we don't need to be sneaky about it, just talk to them. But they just ignored us! Maybe they were asleep....but I mean my voice is loud and I think they heard us. So that hurt...being ignored like that (but it happens a LOT). So we walk to the next persons house and while we were walking I was thinking to God, and I just thought why aren't you helping us? So the second door. We knock and knock and knock. We forgot our phone at home that day so the Elders called the member and he said in a nut shell, don't come to my house I don't want to meet with you. So again, I think to God, why aren't you helping us? Then we finally go to the third persons house and only her daughter was home, but we got to talk to her for a few minutes. And while we were talking to her I thought, maybe that's why the first two didn't answer the door because God wanted us to talk to her.
*Lesson learned: God knows better. I should never doubt or ask him why he isn't helping us, of course he's helping. He see's things differently than I do. So because I don't receive help the way I want, I assume I'm not being helped. BUT in reality, God knows better.
 On Wednesday, to finish our day we went knocking doors and it was the very first door I knock and I begin speaking in Korean and she stops me in the middle of my sentence and says, "where are you from?" and I was SHOCKED! And replied, "America. Where are you from?" and she says, "china!" OOPS!!!!!!!!!! She's not Korean~ I didn't even know! Immediately she invites us in to her home. THAT NEVER HAPPENS!~ I wrote a few weeks back and told you that happened during exchanges, so this was the first time me and sister song got to experience it. AND I got to teach in English! I began by explaining our purpose of knocking on their door, and they seen the Book of Mormon in my hand and asks what it is. So I testify that it is a true book and that's actually why I'm a missionary. Then they look through it (I had an English copy in my bag...all credit to the Holy Ghost) and they see the picture of Moroni with the plates. Then this woman's husband notices the snow in the picture (who notices the snow in that picture?...no one! or a very observant/intelligent human being. Which he was and I felt a little intimidated to teach him because he is so smart!) And he comments about where Moroni is, he guessed some where in Europe and I tell him it is America. Instantly he is amazed and wants to know how the Book of Mormon came about. So I taught him about Joseph Smith and recited the first vision and testified that he can know if the book it true for himself. And we even got a return appointment and should be meeting with them this week! I am so pumped!!! 
Then Thursday was Mom's Birthday...;) and my half way...what a miracle that is!
Friday~ I am told that I have Barbie eyes...not really much of a miracle, but sure why not.
Saturday~ we met with a less active who is just about the cutest woman I ever met in Korea! And she is practically fluent in English so I got to talk with her a lot! As we are talking she mentions that she goes to another church.....and again my heart breaks. HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN?! Better question...why? I don't know. But God does. He sees things I can't, and I had to remind myself of that, and that God knows better. Then to end our night we go knock doors and the same thing happened, a sweet 80 year old Korean lady invites us into her apartment and we teach her about the Book of Mormon, and she told us she is gone a lot because her husband is ill so they go to doc. app.s a lot, but she told us to come back this week and meet with her!
Sunday~ This one is my favorite miracle! Okay so we got a referral from one of our investigators (except she's not really an investigator cause we haven't taught her in forever). So they tell us this man was involved in a car crash in America and he needs help reading some documents, and then they want our Family English Program (30 mins teach English, 30 mins teach gospel). So long story, December 30, 2013 this man and his wife were on a Bus in Oregon and it crashed, as a result 9 people were killed (maybe some of you back home remember seeing this on the news?) This man was critically injured and had to be lifeflighted. And sadly, his wife was one of the nine who were killed. So he was in the hospital for 43 days. And now he is back here in Korea and he is getting tons and tons of bills and documents from Oregon and he can't understand them because he doesn't really know English. So that's where my companion and I come in. I read all his documents and then simply tell my companion what it is and then she explains more to him in Korean. Honestly- I didn't feel like much help. But we did all that he asked and answered all his questions. I just wanted to hug this man (but hi I can't cause I'm a missionary). He has such a warm heart and he was so grateful to us, but we didn't really do that much. We are going to their home this week and will start the 30:30 program. I want to teach him about eternal families SO BAD!! I want this man to know that he will see his wife again!

That's what my week was...just full of miracles and tender mercies from the Lord. I reflected on my week and I wondered why I got to experience all the joys and aches that I felt. There isn't really anything in particular that I did. And if I had it my way I would of chosen to feel a lot more joy and a lot less ache...and maybe all of you feel the same way about your lives? I don't know why things happen the way they do. I don't know why whatever we want to have happen, doesn't happen. The only answer I have is, God knows better. 

I love being God's missionary!
With all my love,
Whit 清货目 磊概









Whit has loved each and every one of her companions.  :)  I am so grateful she has been blessed with such great companions that help her each and every day.








Dedicate Your Heart    9.22.2013
This was a very long, and eventful week! I wish it were possible to tell ya'll everything that happened...here's to trying! :)

So I tell my companion I see crazy things all the time in Sokcho, but she always misses it! Let me share with you one event: Monday after emailing we went to the 시내 (downtown) to do some stuff and as we are walking I am talking to Sister Song, about something (I can't remember) and I'm looking across the road and I see this man and a cute little girl (maybe 3 years old). And out of no where a car comes and almost runs over the little girl. But this man saved her life, and he completely protected this baby girl. It was like she was the nut in a shell. He got hit by the car and it launched him forward- and somehow graciously still landed on his feet. Now, you can imagine the anger anyone would have if you were this man. But he was very calm. He set the little girl on the ground and he squatted down in front of her and I'm sure he's checking to see if she's okay and she is entirely oblivious to what just happened~ and she just wraps her little arms around his neck. For real, it was so crazy. 

Anyway more about missionary work eh? :) Actually this week wasn't too full of missionary work. I told you it was the Korean Thanksgiving so we went into Seoul and slept at the Temple again so we could go to our conference. But it wasn't just an ordinary conference. As you can notice, I don't write home a lot about investigators being taught or receiving baptism...because it doesn't really happen a lot here in Korea. My mission President thought something needed to be done- so instead of doing something like rededicating the entire mission- he wanted all of us missionaries to rededicate ourselves to the Lord in our missionary work. So we had a mission wide fast from Wednesday after lunch to Thursday~ and then we broke our fast together at the conference. It was an amazing experience.

We were also given some time for testimonies. Immediately I felt the spirit tapping on my heart, telling me to go up and share mine. But there were SO MANY people that went up so I ignored the tapping. I peacefully listened to the testimonies and found that mine was strengthened. Every few testimonies I thought, "maybe I should go share mine." But there were so many people, so I didn't. Then there was the last missionary who stood (and of course we were already over time, and I could hear stomach's growling) as he was talking my heart just pounded louder and HARDER than I've ever experienced in my life. I finally couldn't take it anymore and I walked up to the stand. As he was finishing up, I felt my hands just sweating and my legs were trembling (I'm usually not that nervous, it was different). My testimony was short, "...I tried to fight the spirit, but I should never do that because I never win...Heavenly Father hears every single one of our prayers, and I can't fathom that...He wanted me to stand today, and testify that I know He lives. I also know his son, Jesus Christ is our Redeemer. I know that the spirit we all feel in our hearts is real. I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, amen." 

I truly feel like I am more dedicated than I ever have been to missionary work. I feel it in my heart. I'm not concerned about the things I used to be concerned about. Or about the things that use to have all my attention. Some of you may wonder what exactly that means. Some of you may wonder how am I just figuring this out after 9 months of being a missionary. And it's not something NEW that I am learning, it's just some of my roots digging DEEPER~ something I've gained a stronger testimony from.

In a missionaries call letter it says, "You have been recommended as one worthy to represent the Lord as a minister of the restored gospel. You will be an official representative of the Church...You will also be expected to devote all your time and attention to serving the Lord, leaving behind all other personal affairs. As you do these things, the Lord will bless you and you will become an effective advocate and messenger of the truth." I feel this promise taking it's place in my heart.

My companion got to skype her family (because of the holiday the Koreans call home different times than us Americans and remember her parents are both deaf) and she told me after that they all said she has changed. And she was kind of looking for some confirmation from me to say, "no you haven't changed." But instead I just nodded. And she looked at me puzzled. And I said, "I hope after 5 months of being on your mission that you've changed." That didn't seem to satisfy her. So I continued telling her my reasons why a missionary should change during their mission.

I remember in the MTC I felt the change taking place. Remember I complained to you guys for writing me like I was Sister Hunsaker and not Whitley? I was trying so hard to hold on to me. Then I noticed when I was writing you, it wasn't Whitley writing you, it was Sister Hunsker. And although I am still Whitley, I've realized the longer I am on my mission, I feel more like Sister Hunsaker.
 
**********Does this make sense?

Anyway, I'm rambling and what I'm trying to say is, yes I have changed. I hope I have changed. I hope all missionaries see a change in themselves. And I hope that change is all of us becoming more like our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ.

I'm creating so many memories with all the missionaries I'm serving with. I am so grateful for them <3. I am so grateful to be the Lords missionary.

Also this coming Saturday is transfer calls, again. This transfer flew by and it was longer than the usual 6 weeks. We have like 10 new Sisters coming. Everyone is telling me I'll be training...so prayers would be good :)

Dad I'm always praying for your safety while you work. I want you to know I am so grateful for you, even though you are so busy, you take time to write me, and it means the world to me! I love you.

Mom, I love hearing about your week :) your emails are good. And you are so strong. I'm glad you had a happy birthday, and I'm proud of you that you are doing service and finding happiness!

Zo&Bj I hope the dogs are feeling better. I got another card from you zo :) I hope you guys are always safe and happy!

Braid&Mark I haven't heard a lot from you. Hope your vegas trip was fun! And I assume you're both just working? Are you starting another semester of school?

Sky---One email a week isn't too much to ask is it? I mean yeah your arm is broken, but come on! Send me an email you punk! I LOVE YOU. 

Grandma and Grandpa! I got your email :) So if you have time you can reply back to this email. I love you two! I'm glad you are both in good health, I hope you enjoy your last few weeks in Utah before heading to Arizona.

There is nothing more important than this gospel. There is nothing more important than God. I know this life is truly our time to prepare to meet Him (Alma 34:32). I know that ALL OF US need to improve in our relationship with God. There is no better way of strengthening your relationship with Him than to dedicate your heart more fully to Him. I challenge all of you to seek God more. Pray stronger. Dig deeper. Serve harder. 

That's about all I have for this week.
Whenever times are hard just remember, Monday will always come! :)
With all my love,
Whit Jean 헌새커 자매


President's Wife, Sister Christensen

So our Zone went on a hike on Saturday. I'll have you know this hike
just about killed me. Today is the worst pain I've felt in my body
(legs) since who knows how long! Wow!!!

We went on a hike on Saturday because this week was Korean
Thanksgiving (Chusok) and missionary work isn't really possible during
that time. This is probably the biggest holiday of the year. So we had
cleaning day on Friday, and then Saturday was our pday.

The Mountain is called Sorak (Solak?) Mountain....look it up on the
internet. It's huge! When we ride the bus to Seoul I always look at
this mountain, and think, "I wonder what it's like to be on top of
that." Well, now I know. And it's absolutely BEAUTIFUL. I was in awe
as I looked at my view. I think God had a lot of fun creating this
earth for us :)







We had mission conference this week for 추속 (Korean Thanksgiving).

My missionaries! <3 We are getting bigger and bigger... :)
















Never Give Up   9.29.2013
So THANKFULLY, I'm not being transferred :) Sister Song and I get to be here in Sokcho at least one more transfer together. Next transfer we have 17 new Sister Missionaries coming...so maybe we'll both be training then! :0 Yikes!! Also, I just want to let you all know how proud I am of the youth. It's amazing how many missionaries are flooding the earth <3

A lot of you have emailed and asked about how the work is, and how my area is, and how I'm liking my mission. It's kind of hard to answer those questions...but here it goes:
As far as our area goes...it's still pretty hard. We've been here about 10 weeks (and remember we opened the area~ Sister Missionaries haven't been here in over 15 years) and we still don't have any progressing investigators :( It's hard. It really is. I don't know why it is this way. I've thought about how hard we work, and our obedience, and everything that goes in to missionary work. There isn't really a rhyme or reason (that I've found) as to why things are this way. NEVERTHELESS, I do know that God knows our circumstances. I know He is very aware of our potential investigators and all the people here in Sokcho...and all of you around the world.
I really liked what Grandma and Sister Danielle Whitney wrote me this week. Talking about how we need members to help do missionary work. In our white hand book it says to only write positive things home, but I feel like I need to include this. Yes, we have less actives in our area. About 200+. That's real life. We have 6 active members and 6 missionaries (2 elders, 2 sisters, and a senior couple.) We have TRIED so hard to visit less actives. We meet with our Branch President every week (who is the Senior couple, and he goes home in November~ which means Elders here will have to be Branch President) and he tells us which less active families to visit. We try to get our few active members to come visit with us. But they wont. They think that if people fall away they will NEVER come back. But that's not true! But here in Korea, it just seems to be that way? And all the less actives we have visited (except for maybe three) all have another religion. And one of the main reasons they are less active is because they got offended by someone. I remember Sister Eishelle Whitney writing home about his a few months ago, and she said, "It's not worth it...and it's not worth your eternal salvation." I just want to say amen to that! It's ridiculous to me that people choose to be offended. 
So I've been told our area, used to be were all the "bad missionaries" were sent to. The mission president before mine, sent all the lazy missionaries out here. And no sisters existed out here so me and my comp got sent out here to open the area, and we feel like it's a dying area. It's tough. I never thought I'd be facing anything like this...I don't know what more we can do. We've tried just about everything we know. Our Zone Leaders and they always tell us that our Mission President says he doesn't send lazy missionaries out to 강원도 (country side, where we are serving). And the other day I called President regarding other things and before he hung up the phone he asked how Sister Song and I are doing and I said we're good. And he said, "Never give up, okay??"
Every Friday we have our 3 hour weekly planning, and I haven't cried since being here (about 10 weeks) but on Friday after weekly planning, I just broke. I cried to my companion and just expressed to her what I was feeling with the hardships in our area. We are both sort of at a loss of what to do. But we both concluded that we need to rely on the Lord. He knows what is best. He knows what his children need, and I know we just need to live worthy to receive that revelation.
So bottom line, (sorry that I ramble and I'm all over the place) it's really tough out here...but I'm learning and growing every day :) And even though it's hard, I am finding happiness along the way. I am so happy to be a missionary in Korea. I am so happy I get to learn more about our Savior and His teachings, and that I get to grow closer to Him. I love you all, and I am enjoying my mission~ despite all the hardships I've faced, I wouldn't change my mission experience for anything in the world.
And even though I haven't had a baptism in over 4 months, I know that I am still a successful missionary. I know God is proud of the work my companions and I do together. I know that because I feel it. I'm grateful for the ability we have to feel a little piece of Heaven through the Holy Ghost (no wonder the word of wisdom was revealed~how could you feel the holy ghost if you are influenced by alcohol or drugs). ANYWAY :) I am grateful I get to feel everything I am feeling. I know God lives, and I know Jesus Christ lives too. I know they know each and every one of us. They know how to help us, we all must be humble enough to let go of our will, and ask for the help of heaven. No matter what you are facing, I hope all of you can all feel the motivation, love, and sincere comfort that I did from my Mission President's words, and Never Give Up, OKAY?? :)
With all my love,
Whit Jean 헌새커 자매

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” 
― Maya Angelou

We had lunch at a Buffet, called Ashley's. It's super famous here in
Korea. It's supposed to be like American food....but I mean lets be
real, it's not really American at all. Their potatoe wedges are bomb
though. And Ketchup and Mustard and Pepsi tastes exactly like it does
in America, so I'll give them that.

 

This particular Ashley's is inside the Kensington Resort in Sokcho.
It's pretty famous. The Missionary Couple took us there because Elder
Ghergori (right) is being transfered this week. I have a lot of fun
with these Elders. I'll admit SOMETIMES (about 50% of the time) it's
frustrating working with Elders. But it's literally one of those
things like, can't live with 'em, and can't live without 'em.



Well…  since I got the pictures to work I didn't get as far as I wanted to - however - I am hoping to get another update done Monday or Tuesday so stay tuned!  

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

I am slowly but surely getting everyone caught up

Hey Everyone!  
I still CANNOT figure out this picture situation -- and the mismatching font for the dates is DRIVING ME CRAZY   I can't figure that out either, it is all matchy matchy on my end...  just felt I should share that with you -- ANYWAY, so once again all photos will be posted to Facebook and I will make sure the descriptions are uploaded as well.  The only picture that Whit is not in or that doesn't have to do something with Korea is the one what is uploaded so I guess there is one picture to enjoy after the long read.  :)

August 11, 2013

Friends and Family All Over The World :) Hi, I love and miss you so! I hope I got all of your emails correct! There are so many of you!

So this is week 36, I think? August is almost over, where did the time go? I'm sure a lot of you are asking yourselves the same thing! Some of you might be sad because your summer is about up..as for us missionaries, we are happy. Because that means no more sweat dripping down our faces when we talk to people outside!

This humidity here is insane! You can't prevent the sweat. Nothing can help you stay cool. I put like 3 ice cubes in my mouth when we get home because I'm so hot. Sister Christensen (Pres. Wife) told me how to make an ice pack (ones that form to my body and aren't has hard as a rock) and so I can sleep with them at night. We don't have air conditioning, so really I die. We have fans though! 2 of them! I told my companion, " You know how little kids carry their blanket every where with them...the fan is my blanket!" Seriously, whatever room I go in, I take the fan with me and plug it in. Sometimes I don't think it helps, it just feels like a heater is blowing one me. 

Anyway lets talk about more important things! We've been in Sokcho for almost 2 whole weeks now, and we have 0 investigators :( haha, kind of discouraging! But I don't know if I told you this last week or not, but the branch here in Sokcho is super TINY. There are 12 members total, 6 local members and 6 missionaries. The branch president and his wife are missionaries. SO, my companion and I have talked and we both feel like a reason we are here is to strengthen the branch. 

My companion and I are a lot alike. We both know how to love people. My companion's parents are deaf, so she is fluent in Korean Sign Language. I've learned a little bit, it's fun! So because her parents are deaf, she understands the importance of communicating and loving. I'm so grateful I have her. She is only 19 and she already has such a huge understanding and knowledge of what is important in life. 

So this week we worked really hard at getting a map of Sokcho and finding all of the members houses and all the less active members (a ton), so we can go and visit them this week! In Preach My Gospel, in the first few pages, there is a bunch of quotes from the Prophets of the Church. I can't remember which prophet said this, but he says something like, "missionary work is nothing more or less than home teaching", and since I'm a sister missionary, I crossed out home teaching and wrote visiting teaching. I really feel like I am just this intense home teacher who makes a lot of cookies and message cards and tries to get people to come to church!!

We did a lot of knocking doors this week, and it seems like it will be that way for a while. There aren't many people on the streets that we can talk to. But when we do go on the streets it's fun because I stick out and so people are just drawn to us and they wonder what I'm doing in Sokcho!

One very important lesson I learned this week is: It is my blessing to be in Korea. I have to do pass-off, which is passing off teaching all the lessons in korean and knowing a bunch of words. While I was doing pass off with my District Leader, he said things that really touched my heart. He said things I needed to hear. I'm grateful for people like him. He said, "Being here in Korea, and learning Korean is your blessing, Sister Hunsaker". I never thought of it that way. I always viewed Korean as something holding me back, something that was in my way...and although that may be true, it is still my blessing.

Haha, I think my blessings are things that are most challenging for me. Because~ that's when I need God the most. What greater blessing can I receive than learning to trust more in my Creator? I don't think there is anything better. It is my blessing to be here in Korea. It is my hope and prayer that all of us, in the middle of our busy hectic lives, just stop for one second, and count our blessings.

With all my love,
Whit Jean 清货目 磊 概


August 18, 2013 - Surely you will find it
I really can't remember who else I'm supposed to send my emails to- I have to manually type them in and I can't remember everyone...oops! I still love you if I forgot you!

This week was soooo good! We had a Sisters Conference in Seoul (I sent the picture of the City, I love that City). We got to go in one night early because we live so far away! We got to sleep at President and Sister Christensen's house! We helped her get a few things ready for the next day and then we ate ice cream with them before bed (seriously, I was in heaven. You know how much I love ice cream- and to be at President's house...ugh it was a dream!)  Before bed Sister Christensen asked for someone to share a scripture and have a prayer before bed. She asked, did you read anything in the scriptures from personal study, if you can remember that far back! Which by the way is so true! Our days are SO LONG, it was hard for me to remember what I had read about that day. 

I kind of felt a little embarrassed because I couldn't remember what I had read. Surely I studied something! But I didn't know what I read. I had a desire to share, but I had nothing! This was a very humbling experience for me. There is a purpose in our early morning studies, and I think God intends for us to remember what we study throughout our day. Lesson #1 learned~ study, apply, and remember.

My companion shared a scripture with us and she said her thought in Korean and then afterwards President translated for Sister Christensen. And honestly I didn't listen to either of them because I was so wrapped up in my thought (the paragraph above) of not remembering my scripture. So I was humbled and I felt the spirit testify that I need to remember what I study. Then President looks and me, and again I feel the spirit prompt me right before he says, "Sister Hunsaker, will you offer a prayer?" I humbly nodded and knelt to pray.

Always, always, always, in my moments of prayer I am overwhelmed by the spirit. I love praying. I love being asked to give a prayer. I love any opportunity I have to pray to my Loving Heavenly Father. I don't remember what I said in my prayer...but I remember the way I felt. Lesson #2 learned~ the words aren't something we always remember, it's the feelings. As I struggle trying to speak Korean. I get nervous when I'm called on to answer a question in Korean, or to teach my investigator in Korean. But from this experience, I am again humbly reminded that surely it isn't the words that matter, but the feeling that enters your heart.

At the Sisters Conference, they gave us an opportunity to share our testimonies. My girl, Sister Taylor was the first one who popped up out of her seat. And I followed after her. I was so grateful for the chance to share my testimony with the Sisters in my mission. I hadn't really bore my testimony full out for a long time (since leaving the MTC). Of course I share bits and pieces of my testimony every single day- and sometimes in Korean. But to be able to share more, and in my own tongue, what an amazing feeling. I was again, struck by the spirit as I bore truth of the gospel, God, and Jesus Christ. 

My favorite part about being a missionary is being able to always feel God's love. I know Heavenly Father lives. And I know His Son, Our Savior, Jesus Christ lives. I don't know they live because I've seen them like Joseph Smith did. I haven't seen them in this life. I know they live because I can feel them in my heart.

I hope we can all find time to seek the gift we all received when we were baptized, the Holy Ghost. Seek God's love, surely you will find it.
With all my love,
Whit Jean 清货目 磊概


August 25, 2013  -  Where Ever Your Head Is
Hi everybody :)
I didn't even realize it was fair week. Mom, I love all the pictures you sent of everybody. I told mom I didn't realize this past week was fair week. I was thinking it was this week, so now I'm grateful I didn't know because now I don't have to miss it :) Everyone looks so good, and happy!

This week was a little cooler than the last several. AND WE GOT AN AIR CONDITIONER!!! :) Guys, I can't tell you how happy I am. I feel so spoiled. Not everyone gets an air conditioner. But President and Sister Christensen came to Sokcho a few weeks ago and they came to look at our house, and where we just opened the area they asked if we needed anything else. And so I said, "Yeah, an air conditioner :) :) :)" BIG FAT SMILEY FACE!!! And then, ta-da! Sisters are favored, and I absolutely love it!

So because it's been SO HOT, I've had a hard time focusing on my missionary work. I just find myself thinking, "Holy moly, I'm gunna die" or "it's so hot!" "Is this real life? I'm gunna die" Haha seriously. I lost count how many times I found myself thinking this or actually saying it out loud. I even learned how to say some of these phrases in Korean ;) haha. It was a challenge for me to focus on my work, and I hated that. Instead of learning how to say a sentence better in lessons to investigators, I was learning less important sentences. I realized I need to train myself.

So I try to think about my investigators. Think of how I can help Sokcho, how can I be a better missionary, a better person, a better companion, ect. I know where ever your head it, that's where your heart will be. It applies to everything in life. I know that if my thoughts are focused on other things, my heart goes there too. When I first came to Korea, times were ROUGH!! I always thought of home, and I just couldn't focus on the work- because I thought of home, that's where my heart was. I am able to look back over my previous transfers and see where my thoughts and heart was. And because of those experiences, I can see now where my heart is. My thoughts and my heart is here in Korea.

I know it's hard to stay focused the moment sometimes, especially if the moment is full of struggles. BUT, I know that if we just enjoy/endure all will be well. And we'll appreciate the hard times. We learn in the scripture that there must be opposition in all things right? I'm grateful for hot days, I'm grateful for hard times, I'm grateful to be on the opposite side of the world from all of you....because, I am more able to recognize the blessings.

Okay, enough weather talk. WE HAVE AN INVESTIGATOR!!! :) Finally, after 5 weeks, we have an investigator. Her American name is Jessy. She's just about the sweetest thing. Her boyfriend is actually a member, and he is so fly at English. He wants us to teach her, so I guess she was kind of a referral. We were supposed to meet with her when we first got here, but because it was SO HOT, she didn't want to meet.

We met with her on Friday and then after we had just planned to eat dinner and knock on doors for the rest of the night. But then she said she wanted to take us to dinner, and a concert. My first thought was, "Yay!" But then I remembered I'm a missionary, and I probably couldn't go. So we told her we weren't sure if we could go to the concert, but we would find out. So she let me choose what we were eating: Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Pizza, ect. So I said, "Japanese!" We had THEE BEST SUSHI ever! Mmm. So one the way there I called President and asked if we could go to the concert. He said, "What do you think?" ~ I wasn't really expecting that answer...so there was a long pause. I thought, "What do I think? I don't know? Just tell me yes or no!" So I said, "I think it's okay, it's a piano and cello concert." And he said, "I think it's fine if you go. But if you get there and you feel uncomfortable, leave." To make a long story short, we went and it was fun. I was surprised how much I enjoyed it. When I get home, I don't plan on attending many more of these types of concerts, but it was a great experience.

So we built our relationship with our investigator and I'm excited to start teaching her. She knows a little bit of English and we will teach her 30 mins English and 30 mins gospel. She tries really hard to speak to me and I'm grateful for the chance we have to teach her the gospel. She belongs to another church, so that might be hard, but I know if we invite the spirit~ she will feel the message is true, and she'll be converted.

This week I'm going to try and focus my thoughts more on my missionary work. I'm so grateful for all your prayers in my behalf. I feel the strength from your prayers. Thank you for loving me. Where ever our thoughts are, I hope its worth having our hearts there.

With all my love,
Whit Jean 清货目 磊概


September 1, 2013 - Miracles still exist
This week was very memorable, to say the least!

So we had Temple Day on Tuesday, so Monday night we took a bus into Seoul and slept over at the Temple. I LOVE LOVE LOVE the Temple. Missionaries who can't go to the Temple regularly--I don't know how they survive. I always feel at home when I go to the Temple. After the session, I'm more grateful for my life--just everything about my life: people, experiences, love, laughter, growing pains, locations, ect.

Then the next few days weird things happened, but lets just get to the best day: SATURDAY!

So Saturdays we teach free English at our Church. We teach one hour of English and then share a message about our gospel for 30 minutes. So we were at the church a little early for MCM and to set up for English. Sister Song and I were in the Primary room and suddenly Elder Black comes in and asks Sister Song to help him as he hands her his phone. She speaks in Korean and I seen the expression on her face change dramatically. She hangs up the phone and says we need to go. She looks at me with worried eyes and I'm just about to die with the anticipation...so this is what happened:
 The Elders never lock the door to their apartment (they say nothing is worth stealing. As he said that his companion butts in and says, "I do Elder Black! I have a lot of cash!" then Elder Black shrugs and says, "Well I have nothing there worth stealing." haha--oh the simple minds of men). Anyway as they were leaving their house to meet us at church there was an old woman sitting one the stairs of their apartment. She spoke a little with them and they left, not thinking twice about locking their door.
 This cute old woman they were talking to apparently has dementia. So she went in their house after they left and the police told us she just made a mess in there. I think the Elders neighbors called the police and then the police called us and talked to Sister Song. The Cop said she didn't steal anything. So we get to the house (we had to go with them) and this sweet old woman is just sitting in the middle of their living room where the elders sleep. She had folded up their bed and blankets. She has this pile of stuff sitting in front of her (of which she was going to take home: a huge box of Korean Book of Mormon, a blender, and a pan). This old lady told the Police she is looking for a new apartment to buy~ and she was just gathering what she needed I guess! Haha~~ this may not seem funny to all of you, but let me just tell you it was probably the funniest thing that I ever witnessed here in Sokcho!

Now, I have a miracle to tell you about. Because of the phone call from the police we needed to leave the church and walk to the Elders house with them. We're all just walking and talking together and Sister Song puts her arm around me and as she is about to tell me something she suddenly stops talking! I turn to look over at her as she gasps and she starts walking towards this man. Then she starts hugging this man...At this moment all I think is, "She's a missionary. Missionaries aren't supposed to touch, let along hug someone of the opposite sex. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!" I look at Elders and they frantically look back at me. Then I look back at my companion and the man she's hugging, and I recognize him....IT WAS HER DAD!!!
Sister Song's parents have friends (who are deaf) that live here in Sokcho. It's like her mom's very best friend! (we ran into her on the pday we went to the beach, did I tell you that?) Anyway they came to visit their friends, but they had packages (full of food) they wanted to leave for Sister Song. They know the rule, they know they can't see her. So they called the AP's and got the Elders phone number~ he was going to call them and meet with them to give them the packages. BUT--her dad saw us walking to church (so they ducked down in their car so we wouldn't see them, and we didn't) and then shortly after he seen the Elders pass by. Because he's deaf, his voice is quite, but he can still talk. But they just walked by too quickly for him to call after them to get their attention. So he dad knew that we all were at the church. So he was thinking about what to do. He didn't want to call Elders when we were with them, so he was just waiting.
He got out of his car shortly after Elders passed by, to stretch his legs. And that just happened to be the EXACT moment that we were walking to the Elders house! There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that God made that happen. If we were even one minute early or late~ she wouldn't have seen her dad standing outside of his car. I can't say all that happened by chance. There was definitely God's hand in that.
We got permission from our Mission President for all 4 of us missionaries to go to dinner with her parents. It was so amazing for me to see Sister Song talk with her parents in sign language! I never thought I'd be able to meet any of my companions parents~ the thought never crossed my mind. Because I love my companion SO MUCH, meeting her parents just filled my heart with an even greater, deeper love. They seemed familiar to me. They are Korean, and deaf. I'm an American who speaks English and struggles so hard to even attempt Korean...but I was still able to communicate. The communication wasn't a full conversation that I'd like to have~ but it was enough. Enough for me to feel their love for me and for them to feel mine in return. Her parents love me so much, they even bought me a new pair of shoes (her dad wanted me and her to have matching shoes, haha).

One more miracle I seen was Sunday night while we were knocking doors. We were just doing our regular routine of knocking~ nothing special. We knock on this one door and there's a microphone to talk into and they asked who we were. We say that we are missionaries. And then they hung up their phone (that's how they hear us). So we look at each other, kind of shocked and disappointed (even though that happens all the time). Then, suddenly this woman flings open her door and asks want we want. So in this moment I think my heart stopped for a split second, because I was so scared. This woman is wearing a dentist mask and her eyes are just bigger than ever and they're just staring at me! So we begin to gibe her our little message of the reason we are at her door. And she doesn't seem to understand. So my companion asks her if she speaks Korean, she says no. She asks if she is Korean, she replies no. She says she is Japanese (could of fooled me, just sayin). So my companion asks if she speaks English and she says yes. So they both look at me, and my heart just MELTED! I WAS SOOOOOOOOO HAPPY! FINALLY! I CAN SHARE MY MESSAGE IN ENLISH!!! :):):) I explain that we are missionaries. I am from America, and my companion is from Busan here in Korea. I tell her that the reason we are here in Sokcho, and at her door, is because we know our message can bless lives and we want to share why we are so happy! It was amazing :)

I want you all to know that miracles still exist. We can see Gods hand every single day in our lives, if we just take the time to look for it. I know God and Jesus Christ live. I know God wants his children to be happy, that is why he created a plan. I live and follow this plan, and it was brought me the most pure joy that anything could. I know if we follow Jesus Christ, Him whose God's plan is centered on, we will be blessed forever and ever.

I love you all, thank you for supporting me in all the ways that you do. Your love for me doesn't go unnoticed. Xoxoxoxo
With all my love,
Whit Jean 清货目 磊概


September 8, 2013 - This is Gods work
This week was LONG, so much happened! 

On Wednesday we had Zone Meeting and after that I got to go on exchanges with one of the Sister training leaders in my Zone. She came back to Sokcho with me and my companion went with her comp in their area. I was kind of nervous to have her come to my area because I'm still pretty new as a missionary (but since our mission split, I'm kind of considered the older group). We seen SO MANY MIRACLES! I don't know why, but it seems miracles always happen when missionaries have exchanges!
First miracle: We are on the bus going back to my area it's about an hour bus ride. We've been on the bus for about 45 minutes just talking about mission stuff and work that we're going to do, ect. This woman in front of me turns around and says, "Where are you from?!" I tell her we are both from America and then we have this long conversation about her and her life. Her husband drinks and she hates it. She teaches school in another town, so we lives in Sokcho with her husband on weekends (which she doesn't like cause he drinks, A LOT.) and during the week she lives with her daughter in the other town. We talk for about 15 mins and we get off at a different stop with her and continue talking and trying to share our message. We give her our card and an English Flyer, and we got her phone number so hopefully we can meet with her this coming week! :)
Second miracle: After dinner we just went to knock on doors for the rest of the night. And I like knocking doors cause I get to practice speaking Korean~ wither they want to listen or not, I just testify and share our message. This one door, it's the very last door in the building that we knock on and she invites us in!!!! THAT NEVER HAPPENS! I was SHOCKED! :) So I'm not really prepared to teach anything, and thankfully my temporary comp (even though she's American) knows a good amount of Korean. I shared my knowledge and testimony about eternal families. I cried as I told her that through our message she can have make her family an eternal family. It was just simply amazing to me.
Then the next day I had planned to meet with 5 people....and not a one of them pulled through! Crazy weird things happened and it was probably one of the strangest days on the mission. Sometimes~ it's hard to know what to do as a missionary. It was frustrating for me. But I learned something from it: This is God's work. I can't do it without Him. This particular day I wasn't trying to do anything without him, but because I become frustrated I let my guard down. Satan came in and doubts just started flying. I didn't want to get discouraged so I had to remind myself that this is God's work. He will provide a way (1 Nephi 3:7). 

I am learning new things and being reminded of things already learned every single day. I am so grateful to be God's missionary. I'm so grateful for this unique opportunity to be here in Korea. I want to live in God's Kingdom, so I must endure (D&C 78:7). We all must endure.

I love you all so much!
Whit 清货目 磊概

For my loved ones around the world :)




I am that horse. I think missionary work wears on you mentally. If you think you can't do something, then you're right! You  can't! We all know the saying, "Don't know until you try" I feel like that's my motto as a missionary. God called us to serve where are for his specific purposes. Don't be like me and this horse. Believe in God. Know that he can help us where ever we are in life!

Me and God love  you!
~Whit 清货目 磊概


Please try to send Whitley a card/letter to remind her how proud we all are of her, I know she would love to hear from each and every one of you!  She is one of my bestest friends, she is a peace marker, she is a great example to all of us, and one of the most selfless people I know.  She truly truly cares about all the Koreans she has the opportunity to serve.  She is learning, day in and day out, what it takes to be a missionary for our Heavenly Father and I couldn't be more proud of her!    I LOVE MY SISTER!!!

Sister Whitley Hunsaker
Korean Seoul Mission
Gwanghwamun P.O. Box 210
Jongno - Gu
Seoul - Si
Seoul - Teukbyeolsi 110-602

Until next time….   :)